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ReplyDeletegreat post. thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteA great read and coincidentally, I agree.
ReplyDeleteyou really nailed it right on point about all the no no no no on a4a and other web sites i mean at the end of the day looks fade but love is forever so what if you a lil fem or a lil fat everyone needs love and to be excepted
ReplyDeleteHmmm some good points but I disagree would say a4a does what it does well. Provide a forum for (to steal a phrase from Erica Jong) the zipless fuck...
ReplyDeleteIf you want a veggie burger I would say don't go to Mickey Dees. And if you want insightful conversation don't go to a4a. But if you want a sex with a person who meets your desires...(desire is specific by nature..some like a big dick others like fat belly..others like a flat stomach...others like a sterling wit..feeling guilt over desire is a waste of time. It is okay to seek out what you like without fear of rebuke even if want you want is not you. I see nothing wrong with a femme only wanted a masculine guy) A4a provides a good service: A hook up with someone who turns you on, with out having to wade through the muck of an novel size email exchange.
Facebook and Myspace are for personality..a4a is for sex. I love both but sometimes I just want the latter and that is while I appreciate a4a. Yes it turns sex into a shopping list. But sometimes you go into a store knowing want you with out having to browse..and that is why I love a4a.
Some of your points are valid, but go back to the start of the article and try to get the gist of what is being said. Thanks for your input.
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